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Thursday, April 14, 2011

If you think you CAN'T you're right! The Power of a Positive Perspective


Most of what you think you can or CAN'T do comes directly from your PERCEPTION (and perspective). "As a man thinketh in his heart, so IS he!" If you think you are going to make it, you will make it! If you think you'll overcome a thing, you will overcome! If you think you will fail, most likely you will fail! If you think you're unhappy, you'll be destitute. Although life has a tendency of throwing us many blows, it's our duty to hit it back with a ONE-TWO combination. You're in the fight of (and for) your LIFE!

Feeling bad, negative, or hopeless about yourself, your situation, or your surroundings won't HELP but rather hinder you from a breakthrough! Get over yourself! Having a bad attitude or depressed countenance won't change your situation but rather bring MORE of the same (depressed) energy to you. What and how you are is attracted TO YOU. Has it ever seemed like you woke up on the wrong side of the bed and then nothing in the rest of your day seemed to go right? That's the law of attraction (or as the bible states, "as a man thinketh...so IS he). Start MAKING positive things happen for yourself. It's starts with your attitude. Attitude determines altitude. Opportunities are not going to barge in, they merely KNOCK on your door. It's our job to recognize them and CARPE DIEM (seize the moment).


Positive change often times starts with gratitude. Gratitude makes way for abundance. It's easy to realize and recognize all the things you don't have, you desire, or want. But, what about what you already have. Capitalize on your strengthens and minimize your weaknesses. Also, start out by being grateful for WHO you are TODAY. Even your faults serve a purpose. They (faults) are opportunities for perfection (or improvement). Positive change happends one step and adjustment at a time.


Even your present (poor) circumstances have a purpose, so be grateful for them. If "everything works for your good" that means even the bad stuff has a purpose (and will be good in the end). The tests, trials, and troubles are opportunities for TRIUMPHS. Everything has a purpose! Whether it's to teach us what not to do or what to do better next time there's a meaning, reason, and purpose for it ALL.


If your boyfriend has left you, maybe God's making room for a husband! If you're wife's nagging you, maybe it's an opportunity to become a better and more empathetic listener. If you're overwhelmed with debt, maybe the lesson is to be a better steward over what you have. If your unemployed, maybe it's time step out on faith and become an entrepreneur. If you've been laid off or fired from a JOB, maybe it's time to train and educate yourself for that new CAREER existing around the corner .


Whatever the problem, whatever the circumstance you're facing, celebrate! Lift your hands up, throw back your head, and give a big THANK YOU for everything that's existing in your life. As long as you never quit, you'll win. Nothing happens by chance, it's in your life for a reason.

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

The Overcomers Prayer


Today I need the power to overcome the world, the enemy, and especially my SELF. Help me to walk in your boldness, your authority, and your presence. Help me to be sensitive to the promptings and the direction of your SPIRIT. Quiet the opposing voices and bind the opposing forces that come up against my SUCCESS today. Give me the faith I need and KNOW pleases you. I know without faith it's impossible to please you. I know you are God, I know you are real, and I know that I'm yours Help me to connect or reconnect to you as the source of my strength, my light, and my all I can not do it without you...even when I think I can. Lastly, Lord... Make yourself out to be TRUE when all else is a LIE!

Monday, March 21, 2011

Lust is easy...


Carl Reiner is quoted as saying, "Lust" is easy, "Love" is HARD. "Like" is most important."

Everywhere I look I see single people who want to be married, married people who want to be single, and some people who just want to be left alone! Has society fallen into an inescapable state of psychosis? Most people in the last category have given up hope in relationships because of past hurt, disappointments, feelings of being used and manipulated, or just have gotten lost on the path of love.







I asked myself the question, "Why is LOVE so hard?"
Answer: IT REQUIRES SOMETHING OF YOU!

Love...REAL love:
1. Reveals your imperfections (and faults)
2. Requires you to serve the other person BEFORE yourself
3. (Forces you to) Recognize your own role and responsibilities in the relationship
4. (Opens your eyes to) Realize RELATIONSHIPS was God's plan for creation (all along)
5. Releases you from SELF pride

LUST IS EASY
Lust doesn't require much from you but to recognize the outward appearance of something which will fill your void or PERCEIVED need temporarily! You'll be left wanting something that that act, that person, or that thing can never give. Lust can NEVER fulfill what LOVE was intended to make whole! You'll be left lacking!

There's a place, a void, and a space that can only be fulfilled by
1) God
2) Purpose (your vision and destiny)
3) God's chosen, anointed, and appointed MATE (for you)

LOVE IS HARD
Anything worth keeping is worth working hard for. Think about it, whatever you VALUE you protect! Whatever's important to you, you take care of. Whatever interests you, you pay ATTENTION to. Love isn't easy but it is fruitful. True love is commitment not an occurence. True love surpasses fault finding, superficiality, and growing pains. Think about it, whenever something is growing or expanding, it PRESSES outward which causes (temporary) distress. (Think about about how a baby grows in the womb, you don't get rid of the beautiful baby because the growing is painful).

"LIKE" IS MOST IMPORTANT
That's true! Although no one is likeable 100% of the time, especially those closest to you, it is important to strive to be likeable. (I'm preaching to myself). The bible says, "If you want friends show yourself FRIENDLY." Sometimes it's hard for our best friends, spouses, and children to like us because it's hard for them to press pass the roles we play in order to recognize the jewel they have in their midst. The same goes for us, "Do we recognize the GIFTS (in people) that God has placed in our lives? Relationships are encounters for a brief period of time that test you, grow you, and develop your L O V E walk. This journey is best enjoyed one footstep at a time. Two questions, "Do you have anyone on the journey with you? Do you have anything (any love) left to give?"

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Recession Obsession: Product #2, Beauty on a Budget


VITAMIN E
Here's a quick "beauty blog" for those on a budget!

Did you know you can use these pills TOPICALLY on the face?
Tired of spending big bucks on expensive moisturizers and fade cream?
How about on wrinkle creams? Well, just use a needle and prick open the goodness within these little gel caps that can be found in any local dollar store or Walmart.
HIDDEN FACTS
These little pills pack the power to fade dark spots, acne scars, deminish wrinkle, age spots, moisturize, and replinish. All week I've used them alongside my new, all natural, skincare routine (Baking Soday, lemon juice, and even vinegar). So far I'm liking the results!
MORE INFO
Here's a tutorial video:
Here's a result video:
My next "beauty on a budget" adventure (vitamin E sugar scrub):

Be blessed and be beautiful, both inside AND out!